Tonight I was invited to go to a pre-screening of the movie “She’s Out of My League.” If you haven’t seen the trailer, check it out here. Basically the premise of the movie(best I can tell so far) is that this guy is a complete yahoo, and the girl’s desirability is so high, there is no reason on Earth she should even be around the guy in the story. The guy is a beta male, doesn’t dress well, and has a crap job. She, on the other hand, is a high powered, bit of hotness.
The unfortunate thing, is that way too many guys go though life, in such a state. Yes it’s a comedy, with a bit of romance to it, but far too often it describes real life. Way too many guys go though life, accepting what comes easy, and desiring more, but never really making the changes so they can get what they really want. It’s clear that the guy in the movie, has been getting what he expects to get up to that point, then he has a shot, and starts to work hard to keep this amazing girl. In real life, it’s doubtful he would have been able to get her or keep her, with the way he presents himself, and convey who he is.
Here are a few tips, so no matter who she is, she will NEVER be out of your league
1. Believe you deserve the best life has to offer.
A truly confident person, with few to no deservedness issues, truly believes they deserve the best life has to offer. They set their sights high, and are willing to pay the price to get those things. They know they have earned, and deserve those great things that come their way.
2. Know where you are headed and be working towards it.
The guy in the movie, seems to be headed nowhere, and it shows. He gets off his bum, and get motivated when he meets this girl. In reality, it’s not where you are so much as where you are headed. Girls love a great story line. Even if your job right now isin’t that great, if you run a business on the side, and are working towards your dream, that’s exceptionally attractive.
3. Be in good shape and well groomed.
The guy in the movie, is a schlub. Dresses badly, hasn’t seen a gym in……..maybe ever. Now, you don’t have to be a cross between Mr. Olympia, and Ryan Seacrest, but that doesn’t mean fitness and being well groomed wont help. A little goes a long way in this area, and it’s a great way to leverage your efforts. Get in the gym, hit the weights, and invest in a wardrobe upgrade.
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